Using the Gents Toilets
When it comes to using the gents toilet for the first time can be quite daunting, especially when you don’t know what to expect. If you are pre-T or even in the early months of Testosterone and you feel you don’t pass enough to use the gents, don’t be afraid to still use the ladies or even use the disabled toilet.
I have put together a guide to help you.
Skip a Urinal
If you feel confident enough using a Stand to pee device(STP) then using the urinals is for you. Cis males don’t like to urinate next to each other for fear of bumping elbows, if you can always leave one urinal between you and the next guy they call it a buffer zone. Guys will even wait their turn rather than get that close to another dude!
No Talking or Eye Contact
Remember to keep your eyes forward and avoid looking at anyone while your using the urinals, try and remember “Hold your peace while holding your piece” and avoid talking to anyone, guys just go in do their business, wash their hands and then straight back out again.
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Whether you choose to use the urinal or the stall which ever is more comfortable for you. Treat the gents toilet like a drive-thru, go in do your business wash your hands and out again. There is no waiting around as they may see this as being weird.
It will take time to get over the feeling of nervousness when using the gents, that will pass the more confident you get when you use them.